Core members are matched within 5–7 business days. Minis members are matched within 48 hours. The difference is because younger children's matches require a bit more care — we want to make sure the reading levels and family expectations are well aligned. Your first monthly pack ships alongside or shortly after your match notification.

If a pen pal relationship goes quiet for more than six weeks, reach out and we'll rematch your child at no charge. We don't ask for explanations. Life happens — families move, get busy, go through hard things. Your child gets a new pen pal. They don't need to know the details.

Yes. MailDay is currently a digital membership — you receive a PDF pack each month and print it at home. Standard home printer, standard paper. The stationery and templates are designed to print on regular 8.5×11 paper. We're working on a physical tier (Phase 2) for families who prefer not to print. If that's you, get on the waitlist.

Minis (ages 3–6): the pack is centered on drawing, coloring, and simple activities. Your child draws their response; you can add a sentence or two. Their pen pal gets original artwork in the mail. Perfect for kids who can't write yet but absolutely want a pen pal anyway.

Core (ages 6–12): the pack assumes the child can write independently — or close to it. The conversation prompt card gives them five questions to choose from. Most 6-year-olds need a little help; most 8-year-olds don't. If you're unsure, Minis is the safer start — you can always upgrade.

Yes — each child needs their own subscription, since each child gets their own pen pal match. You can manage multiple children from one account.

Not currently — but it's on the roadmap. For now, the founding member rate ($8/month per child, locked for life) is the best deal available. If you're enrolling multiple children, locking in the founding rate for all of them is the move.

Yes. You can pause your membership for up to three months — useful if you're traveling, going through a busy season, or just need a break. Your pen pal relationship is held during a pause. When you resume, you pick up where you left off.

The Homeschool Edition adds a monthly resource pack to your standard membership — vocabulary flashcards in three age tiers, a copywork card from Poppy's letter, a nature journal page, a geography exploration sheet, a writing skills tracker, a read-aloud companion guide, and a year-end portfolio certificate. It's $6/month more than the standard tier.

You don't need it to have a great pen pal experience — the standard Core and Minis packs stand completely on their own. The Homeschool Edition is for families who want to use the pen pal relationship as a formal part of their language arts. If that sounds like you, read more here.

MailDay recommends families use a PO Box instead of a home address for privacy — and a PO Box costs money that not every family has. Give a Key is a $5, $10, or $20 add-on at checkout that sponsors a PO Box for a family who can't afford one. Every child deserves a mailbox. Give a Key makes that possible for kids who would otherwise be left out. Families can also apply to receive a sponsored mailbox — no questions, no paperwork, no stigma.

Not yet. MailDay is currently a digital membership — you print the pack at home each month. A physical tier where we mail a printed pack directly to your door is planned for Phase 2. If you'd like to be notified when that launches, get on the list here.